MY ANSWER TO PARTY GIRLS!

My dear associate Vegas International, also a promoter has a great blog that I like to read, not too many blogs interest me but his touches certain topics that I can relate to or that I find mentally stimulating, one in particular is Party Girls. He made some comments about women who constantly party on the scene, I know he isnt referring to me by far, because he invites me out to his parties all the time and I never go! Not because I dont like his events, but I dont randomly party and if do party I have to be with out of town family that I am entertaining or just need a break! Now Vegas, I can act silly with and be a Jamaican, while some of my other associates dont know anything about the 90's or 40's.

Vegas has a great crowd that follows him but as a publicist I have to be mindful of where I lay my eggs. As he mentioned alot of the same women are on guestlist and they just happen to be in every weeks pics, of the Alltheparties.com and 7days7nights.com. Now those are the women who love to party! Are they any less of a good woman or a woman that is successful in her career? Me, personally I'm all about that cakie, I wont speak with you on a daily level or entertain you if its not about building some business. I am cut dry about my shit and everyone knows so. All the same lets examine two types of party girls.

Tracey is a single mother - that works Mon-Fri., she gets up at 6am to get her daughter ready and take her to the babysitter and then Tracey's off to her job in which she hates, Tracey's making $48,000 a year, which is never enough. On the weekends her kid goes to her father. Tracey and her girls like to go to The Fifth (MIA) or Prime (NYC) or the regular jump off spot on Fridays and Saturdays. Now tracey is a bad chick outside of her business attire.

The little camera guy from alltheparties.com wants to take pictures of Tracey and her friends and every week he knows he's getting a eye full of shots of her. Please keep in mind Tracey is an assitant at work she doesn't get any praise from her boss, shes asked for a raise, but most of all she is unappreciated at work and at home. Ask yourself where do these party girls get their praise from, who makes them feel appreciated when they are all dolled up?

ALL HAIL, 7DAYSYNIGHTS AND ALLTHEPARTIES and all the viewers that comment on her fat ass and nicely done wig or real hair or whatever!!!

Tracey knows her self worth is at the clubs, she's a motha effing star!!! Its sad, yet real ish! A girl like "Tracey" doesnt realize she does this but I observe people and patterns... this is what I do man!!!

Now on the other hand you have Tatiana she is a bad ass chick herself! She doesn't really work, shes a socialite, for argument sake you've seen her on Myspace she has a few King Mag-like images. Tatiana doesnt wait in line, yet Tracey does. As Tatiana enters the room the DJ is calling out her name and she is going to a table with her 3 closest friends and the table has nothing but ballers and bottle poppers. Tatianna is saying hello to everyone and just happens to everyone down to the bus boy.

If I were a man would I take Tatiana seriously, hell no!!! She's too Poppin'!!! Now, would I take Tracey seriously, No! Although I see the circumstances that she is a single hardworking mother she is in every party pic every week! I would probably want to just smash Tracey and keep it moving.

This makes a major difference people. Its okay to go out, but in moderation. Its alright to know people, but let people come to you, dont be a chicken head and run up to everyone you know unless its a person you deal with on daily level in some way or the other.

I have to think like a man for a minute, I would be very hesistant to date or take a club girl seriously. If my joint went out every now and then again sure, but not every damn week!!!

Now look at me, I know quite a few people and people know me who I have never met before. My trick is I dont know you...I am too much into myself to run up to anyone and seek attention or acceptance for that matter. I go to events where it counts!

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