Mr. Big Stuff! Who fills your Oreo!

Who is Mr. Big? We all have an idea of Who Mr. Big is...as the Isley Brothers and R. Kelly created a persona out of song and the creators of Sex and The City. In reality Mr. Big is a concept of a man we are looking for that will eventually sweep us off our feet or a man that we are not suppsed to have, such as a hard catch, a married man or man that has too much going on... At some point in our lives we have all been Mr. Big or have had a Mr. Big. Whether on the receiving or giving side of this notion Mr. Big is a safety net of emotions or where we channel them. If you have a Blackberry Messenger, my status messages states, "Im so sex in the city, I got Carrie fever waiting for Mr. Big". My Big would be that man that sweeps me off my feet and gives me good old fashion butterflies in my stomach by just hearing his voice on the other end of the phone. Call me an old fashion chick but I am big on chemistry! When I was seperated from my boyfriend for several months, I had a Mr. Big and yes he filled a void that was missing in the previous relationship. We met through mutual friends, I dont beleive in love at first sight but it was a feeling I still event encountered again! Yet, he had his own skeletons in his closet he was living with his girlfriend, I guess he was unhappy in his relationship but was too afraid to leave his stability, yet he was my Mr. Big because he and I formed a great bond and he made me realize what I was missing in my life, I knew I was on a temporary break with my man and I would'nt have started a new relationship with anyone else.

We found some sort of peace with each other. Today Mr. Big for me would be more a "Mr. Do Right by Me". Whatever your situation we all have a Mr. Big. I encourage a healthy Mr. Big for anyone whether that Mr. Big helps you realize you have a sour situation with your loved one or help you motivate yourself to feel and look good so when that Mr. Big comes along you just know that its him